Heartbreaks can be devastating.
People often find themselves on the receiving end of dating a person who turned out to be completely different than what they presumed.
While we totally understand that you have been through excruciating pain – one that tested you beyond the limits you had imagined in your wildest dreams, we do want you to get better. The entire point of this post is to get that smile back up and running across your lips. But before we make an attempt, we need you to take a closer look at reality and focus on 5 reasons why they may never call you back:
They Have Moved On:
Humans are designed to deal with setbacks. However, not everybody has got the strength and maturity to deal with a setback disguised as heartbreak.
Some people move on so quick that it makes their partners wonder whether they ever loved them truly, whereas the not-so-lucky ones take quite a while to phase the heartbreak out of their lives. If your partner has not shown interest in you lately, it might signify that they have moved on and won’t look back.
They Never Cared:
One of the most important aspects of a real relationship is honesty. There is seldom anything worse than being with a dishonest partner in a relationship, for it puts you at a greater risk of being compromised emotionally.
Relationships tend to bring about a certain level of attachment, which in turn leads to expecting things from your partner. If the entire relationship was based on lies and your partner never really cared, they will never come back to you again.
He’s Planning To Get Back At You:
Some people prove themselves to be the worshipper of Satan by showcasing evilness beyond words as if deserting you wasn’t enough already. In case you took your stand and never compromised with your dignity, they can push themselves beyond the limits trying to bring harm and negativity to you. We strongly suggest you identify people like these and stay away!
You Were At Fault But You Never Apologized:
People seldom change. If your partner broke up with you citing your flaws, assess yourself before playing the blame game. If you believe your partner has truly loved you and have enough souvenirs in the testimony of his loyalty, introspect yourself. Sometimes all they keep waiting for is a heartfelt and honest apology from your end.
You Are Unwilling To Mend Your Ways:
Upon introspection, suppose you come across the fact that it was indeed you who was at fault but you’re not fighting your instincts which are reluctant to change. Then what? Will things get any better? No. You should always remember that a relationship is a two person thing – neither he nor you can sustain it alone. If your stubbornness is killing the relationship, change. We guarantee that mending your ways won’t bring any harm to the relationship. Besides, there’s barely anything left right now, so why bother about the cons?
Life goes on. If you think sitting idle and shedding tears for someone who doesn’t care is going to bring you a lot of success, you’re so wrong. People tend to take advantage of other people and their vulnerabilities, with often the outcome leaving someone depressed. We want you to stay happy and healthy as you’ve always wanted to be. Stay blessed!